Friday, April 13, 2012

Meeting Mohammed and Alia (ESL Blog #5)


If you’ve ever been to Disney World, you would probably agree that it fulfills their motto of being “the happiest place on earth.” From the amazing rides, to the colorful shows, right down to the Mickey Mouse ears you can wear to emulate the famous mouse. Now think about how true that would be if you had never heard of or seen a place like this, and happened to visit on a whim. Well, that is how my ESL couple landed at the happiest place on earth for their spring break vacation, and their retelling of the experience made me feel happy even though I didn’t get to go myself.
As I walked into our normal meeting place in 1873, Mohammed and Alia both lit up and hurriedly waved me over to their table. “Taylor! We just had the best vacation of our lives! Please let us tell you about it.” They began describing their trip by saying that their family friends told them to go visit Orlando for the beaches that they had never seen. But upon driving around the city, they discovered this fancy park that looked fun, so they took their 2 kids and went up to the gate. “We had arrived at this magical place called ‘Disney World’, have you heard of it?” I chuckled a little bit as I told them that this was a very popular tourist attraction where many families decide to vacation with their children. They then began to describe how their children squealed in delight at each new site that they saw, and how they couldn’t imagine a better trip.
While listening to them recount their trip in great detail, I realized that they were not having as much trouble finding English words as they usually do. I eagerly sat up and was again riveted by the fast-paced learning they had accomplished since moving to the United States in January. When they began to wind down their story, I asked them how their learning program was coming along. Alia smirked as she said that both of them had moved up to the highest level verbally! This made me so proud since they came in at the lowest level. She then began to explain her other problem: writing.
She described that they could easily catch on to English, but they had terrible struggles when it came to learning to write it. “See, in Arabic, the letters make sense to me. When you put them together, I can see a whole word. But when I get to English, I cannot understand the symbols and they look like a mash of lines and dots.” I guess I had never thought of that before, but it makes sense. In order to learn to speak another language, you mostly have to listen and repeat back what you hear. But in order to write it, you have to adopt a new way of seeing symbols, and having them make full words and sentences. This isn’t even including the weird grammar and spelling rules that may confuse someone more. I guess I never thought about how complicated learning English really was!
As we said good-bye for that meeting, I realized I am very impressed by that couple. They have made such progress in their learning, and the effort they are putting in is incredible. While I may not be able to learn another language like they can (I swear that part of my brain has been turned off), I can try my best to appreciate the efforts they are putting into learning our language. It’s the best way I can make them feel like where they have come is the happiest place on earth. 

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